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Thursday, August 20, 2009

Prayer Request

We've had a tough couple of days. At the routine sono I had on Tuesday my OBGYN noticed a large amount of fluid in our baby boy's abdomen. He sent us to a specialist yesterday, who confirmed this fluid is serious. At this point there is nothing the High Risk Specialist can see to determine the cause of the fluid. There are tons of possibilities. We were told that given the general condition the baby has a less than 50% chance of survival. You always imagine what you would do in a situation like this and the answer for us has been we take it step by step. We are on our knee's before God, knowing this baby is His child above ours. We are holding eachother tight. We finding even more joy in John Reid. We are desperate for mercy upon the baby and us. We are standing firm in the promises of the Lord. We are overwhelmed with the love and support that have surrounded us in a remarkable way. I'm not a writer or I would be able to put better into words our emotions and feelings. Although I know most of our friends and family have been in touch with us, I just wanted to let everyone what is going on. 


Here is what we know:
-The baby has a large amount of abdominal fluid and I have excess amniotic fluid 
-The cause of this is unknown. It could be something such as a virus, chromosomal issue, tumor or a number of other things. 
-We will be doing an amnio on Monday that will test for many of these things. Results will take close to 2 weeks. The doctor we are seeing on Monday is said to be the best. He could order further testing.
-The baby is "healthy" at this point with a strong heart beat and normal brain development. Our OBGYN, who has been wonderful, warned us that the baby's health could change quickly.
-I am currently 32.5 weeks pregnant. Due October 13th
- I feel okay. I have had a tough pregnancy and it's a bit of a relief to know my aches and pains are justified. I am not on bed rest at this point, but the more I'm on my feet the more fluid I will produce.
-We are still praying about a name. Baby Boy Trigger for now, but we'll let you know as soon as we have one!

Specific Prayer Requests
Mercy Upon our baby- Having had John Reid we know the reality of life in a small baby. This means we understand our son is fighting against this fluid and it's cause. Of course this thought is almost unbearable. 
Wisdom- In all decisions Chris and I are and will be faced with. And wisdom in all doctors and nurses we come in contact with
Healing in Christ's name- If it's God's will for this baby to be healed may He show us all a miracle!
Openness to God's plan- He ways are greater than ours! Please pray we an be instruments of His, even in this time. That we will experience Him in new ways that bring glory to Him. 
For Chris- Strength, peace, wisdom, comfort
For John Reid- I break down every time I am reminded that this is his brother we are talking about. The brother that is suppose to be his best friend one day. May God protect his little mind and heart.
For me- Strength, the peace of Christ, opportunities to rest and take care of my body and this baby's home for now

Of course please pray in any other way God might lead you.

We are overwhelmed by the seemingly 100's of people who have surrounded us in love. It truly is amazing to be blessed with such amazing family and friends. 

I'm not sure how much we will be able to post, but we'll try to keep things updated. 

4 comments:

Julianne said...

Sweet Emily, I've already starting praying for all of you. Please keep us posted on your precious little one. We will pray consistently for him. Love you all!

Dinkins dispatch said...

Hi Emily and Chris;
We are praying for you and want to encourage your heartss to stand firm and don't give up HOPE. Rom.15:13 also, during difficult times like this, only with Jesus can this become a tremendous blessing and time of spiritual growth. You are an excellent writer Em! I hear your love and trust in Jesus in your blog. You and Chris ARE glorifying God in your time of waiting and suffering. God is faithful. I love Psl.46:1,2 "God is our refuge and strength a very present help in trouble, therefore we will not fear....." Psl.91 , Psl 23... "Yea though I walk through the valley of the shadow of death I will fear no evil, for Thou art with me , Thy rod and Thy staff , they comfort me." I have been comforted over and over by His rod and His staff. God is faithful and wants you to draw closer and closer to Him. I pray this will trun out for tremendous blessing and healing of baby boy Trigger. I love you and want to hold you in my arms and know that Jesus wants to also!!!!

the finley family said...

sweet emily! bless your heart, i cannot even begin to imagine. thank you for sharing. i am praying praying praying! GOD is so big and i pray healing over your precious little baby boy...
love,
katie

Jara said...

praying without ceasing for baby Ben, "For I know the plans I have for you, declares the Lord, plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you a future and a hope" Jer. 29:11